Marriage and Wedding Customs in the Philippines

By Jalen Senal

The Philippines, an archipelago with over 7,000 islands, has a rich and diverse culture, making it challenging to pinpoint one-size-fits-all wedding customs. However, here are some of the most common wedding traditions in Filipino culture:


Pamamanhikan: This is a pre-wedding tradition where the groom’s family formally meets the bride’s family to ask for her hand in marriage. In some regions, this also involves giving dowries or gifts, but the main purpose is to seek the family’s blessing for the union.

 

Veil and Cord Ceremony: During the wedding, it’s customary for the bride to wear a veil, symbolizing unity and protection in the marriage. The cord, draped over the couple, represents their bond of love and harmony.

 

Church Weddings: Many Filipino couples prefer church weddings, reflecting the country’s predominantly Christian population. However, non-traditional weddings are becoming more popular, with versatile venues like Club Ananda offering beautiful alternatives.

 

Salu-salo: After the wedding ceremony, a feast featuring Filipino cuisine is typically held. Couples can also choose international dishes for their banquet. These celebrations usually require a spacious venue.
At Club Ananda, you can host both your wedding ceremony and reception in one package, making it easier for couples to transition smoothly from the ceremony to the celebration.


Sending Off: Filipinos are known for their generosity, and it’s customary for couples to give guests a parting gift, often food or small tokens. The tradition of “binalot” or “pabalot” refers to these take-home packages. To leave a lasting impression, consider choosing the best caterer in town for your event.


In the Philippines, weddings are not just a union of two people, but a celebration of family, tradition, and culture. Whether you choose to follow age-old customs or embrace modern trends, what matters most is creating a memorable experience that reflects your unique love story. With its versatile and beautiful settings, Club Ananda offers the perfect backdrop to honor these traditions while adding a touch of elegance and convenience to your special day.